>>66>I'd say the stories themselves are pretty open to pathologizing and condemning infidelity as a practiceI mean, I think infidelity is bad for pretty straightforward reasons.
in that post, I was not pushing back against media that might romanticize infidelity for fetishistic reasons (NTR content), which is fine and actually great because I think people embracing their kinks in harmless ways is fun and enriches sex culture by making it more interesting.
I was attacking "intellectuals" who pathologize kinks to attack sexual minorities and fetish-havers as mentally ill degenerates that need to be purged or whatever
>Though I think a story of "Oh, he's just an all around better, nicer guy than me" would be interesting too.I suspect this already exists somewhere, to really slam home the humiliation point in a realistic/rational way for the few people who like it best in that style